FAQ - Mati Sicherer | Fair Lawn, NJ

No. I am trained in couple's therapy, individual modalities and parenting work as well. In addition, one of my specialties is working with partners where one or more have ADHD.

No. Only a medical doctor can prescribe medications. However, I am able to make a referral to an appropriate doctor if you want/need medications.

All sessions are confidential unless written permission is given to me to discuss an issue with someone else (such as a medical doctor).  Please note, that certain laws require a therapist to break confidentiality, such as child sexual abuse or threats of suicide/homicide. 

Unfortunately, I do not accept medical insurance. If you choose to submit a claim to your insurance, I can provide you with a "superbill" with documentation of all attended sessions and fees paid for any out of network benefits.

All sessions are between 45-55 minutes depending on need.

Sex therapy focuses on relationship and intimacy issues. It involves working with a qualified sex counselor or therapist to address sexual concerns. This process includes discussing sexual functioning to identify and clarify issues and dysfunctions. The primary goal of sex therapy is to resolve these concerns and related issues. Discussions are confidential and may also explore past experiences relevant to the current situation. 

Sex therapy is generally brief if the concerns are straightforward. However, if medical issues or emotional factors, including relationship problems, are involved, therapy may take longer..

Typically, sex therapy includes couples therapy since sexual concerns usually affect both partners, though individuals (both in and out of relationships) can also receive treatment. 

“Homework” assignments are often given to supplement therapy, helping individuals address their difficulties between sessions and accelerate progress. These assignments may include experiential exercises, written tasks, reading relevant books, or watching educational materials on sex.

Sex therapy might be “for you” if any of the following issues interfere with your relationship and the quality of your life: 

Anxiety:

• Experiencing anxiety about sexual activity and sexual performance 

• Anxiety about body image, penis size 

• Fear of sex 

• Sexual shame, trauma, avoidance 

Arousal issues: 

• Being unable to get aroused or orgasm during sex for men and women 

• Low libido or mismatched sex drives in couples 

• Erectile dysfunction 

• Delayed or premature ejaculation 

• Pain during sex (e.g., vaginismus) 

Intimacy issues: 

• Lack of communication about sex and intimacy Issues related to gender identity or sexual orientation Emotional and relationship issues stemming from sexual difficulties 

• Healing from infidelity 

• Coping with a sexually transmitted illness (STI)

The first session is about getting to know each other. We'll talk about what brings you to therapy, what your goals are, and how we might work together. There's no pressure to share everything all at once—we go at your pace.

If you enjoy the calming, grounding presence of animals, Louie (my therapy dog) can be a wonderful co-therapist. His presence often helps with anxiety, emotional regulation, and creating a sense of safety during sessions.

It means I don’t see ADHD, autism, or other forms of neurodivergence as problems to be fixed. Instead, I honor your unique brain and experiences, and we work together to create strategies that align with your strengths and needs.