Sex Therapy | Fair Lawn, NJ
“Is It Just Me?”
Sex therapy isn’t just for people in crisis—it’s for anyone feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure about sex, intimacy, or identity.
Whether you're navigating low desire, anxiety, shame, painful relationship patterns, or questions about your sexual identity—you’re not alone.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor and certified Sex Therapist, I offer a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore these concerns with care and curiosity. Together, we’ll move toward connection, safety, and self-trust.
Sex therapy isn’t about fixing what’s broken—it’s about rediscovering your wholeness.
What is Sex Therapy?
Sex therapy is a safe, supportive space to explore intimacy, desire, identity, and connection—without shame or judgment.
Whether you're facing low desire, pain during sex, challenges with arousal, or exploring kink, non-monogamy, or sexual identity, sex therapy can help you understand your needs and express them with confidence.
My approach is inclusive, trauma-informed, and affirming of all relationship structures and sexual expressions—grounded in the belief that everyone deserves pleasure, safety, and agency.
You’re not the only one…
Sexual concerns are incredibly common, but they’re often kept quiet, which can make you feel like you’re the only one going through it. You're not.
Low desire, mismatched libido, performance anxiety, shame around sex or the body, difficulty with arousal, or feeling emotionally disconnected during intimacy—these are issues I see in my therapy practice every day. They’re deeply human, and they often come with layers of emotional pain, self-doubt, or fear of being judged.
If you're struggling with sex, you're not broken. You're not alone. And you're not beyond help.
As a sex therapist, I’ve supported many people who felt confused, isolated, or ashamed—people just like you. Together, we’ll unpack the “why” with care and curiosity, and work toward healing, connection, and confidence. Whatever you’re carrying, you don’t have to carry it alone anymore.
Is Sex Therapy Right for You?
Sex therapy might be “for you” if any of the following issues interfere with your relationship and the quality of your life:
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Experiencing anxiety about sexual activity and sexual performance
Anxiety about body image, penis size
Fear of sex
Sexual shame, trauma, avoidance
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Being unable to get aroused or orgasm during sex for men and women
Low libido or mismatched sex drives in couples
Erectile dysfunction
Delayed or premature ejaculation
Pain during sex (e.g., vaginismus)
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Lack of communication about sex and intimacy Issues related to gender identity or sexual orientation
Emotional and relationship issues stemming from sexual difficulties
Healing from infidelity
Coping with a sexually transmitted illness (STI)
Exploring “opening'“ your relationship
Exploring kink/BDSM
When Sex Doesn’t Feel the Same Anymore
Many women find that their relationship with sex changes with age—whether it’s lower desire, discomfort, or feeling disconnected from their body. You're not broken, and you’re not alone. Sex therapy offers a safe, shame-free space to explore these changes, reconnect with your sensual self, and rediscover what pleasure means to you now. It’s never too late to feel confident, connected, and fully alive in your sexuality.
As men age, it’s common for desire, performance, or confidence to shift—but that doesn’t make it any less frustrating or confusing. Whether you’re experiencing changes in libido, erection difficulties, or just feeling disconnected from your sexual self, sex therapy offers a space to talk about it without shame or pressure. Together, we can work toward clarity, confidence, and a more satisfying intimate life—on your terms.
Exploring Who You Are Without Judgement
Desire isn’t static—and if you’re questioning your sexual identity, interests, or relationship style, you’re not alone. Whether you’re curious about kink, navigating polyamory, or feeling disconnected from what used to excite you, sex therapy offers a nonjudgmental space to explore. Together, we can unpack your desires, boundaries, and evolving sense of self—so you can reconnect with your sexuality in a way that feels authentic, empowered, and entirely your own.
“I’m Not Sure If I’m Ready for Sex Therapy…”
It’s completely normal to feel unsure about reaching out for sex therapy. In fact, most people do.
You might be thinking:
“Is my issue even serious enough to see a therapist?”
“What if talking about sex is too awkward or uncomfortable?”
“Won’t I be judged?”
“What if my partner doesn’t want to come with me?”
“I should be able to figure this out on my own.”
If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many of my clients come in feeling nervous, embarrassed, or even ashamed. You’ve likely carried these questions and fears quietly for a long time. That takes a toll.
Here’s what I want you to know:
You don’t have to be in crisis to benefit from sex therapy.
You set the pace. You never have to talk about anything before you’re ready.
You won’t be judged—this is a space for honesty, curiosity, and respect.
Therapy can still be effective even if you come alone.
Struggling with sex, desire, or intimacy doesn’t make you broken—it makes you human.
Starting therapy is an act of courage, not a sign of failure. If part of you is curious but unsure, that’s a valid place to be. I’m here to meet you there—with compassion, not pressure.
You don’t have to be “ready.” You just have to be willing to take one small step.
You Deserve a Relationship with Sex That Feels Safe, Honest, and Empowering
Change is possible—and it starts with one honest conversation. Whether you're struggling with desire, shame, communication, or disconnection, you don't have to face it alone. Therapy can help you feel more connected to yourself and your relationships.
Reach out today to take the first step toward healing.
