Sex Therapy | Fair Lawn, NJ

“Is It Just Me?”

Sex therapy isn’t just for people in crisis—it’s for anyone feeling stuck, disconnected, or uncertain about sex, intimacy, or identity.
Whether you're dealing with low desire, anxiety, shame, painful patterns, or questions about your sexuality—you’re not alone.

As a Licensed Professional Counselor and certified Sex Therapist, I offer a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore these concerns with care and curiosity. Together, we’ll work toward connection, safety, and self-trust.

Sex therapy isn’t about fixing you—it’s about rediscovering your wholeness.

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You’re not the only one…

Sexual concerns are common—but often kept quiet, leaving you feeling alone. You're not.
Low desire, mismatched libido, performance anxiety, shame, arousal difficulties, or emotional disconnection during intimacy—these are deeply human issues I see every day in my practice. They often come with pain, self-doubt, or fear of judgment.

If you're struggling with sex, you're not broken or alone—and you're not beyond help.

As a sex therapist, I’ve supported many people who felt confused, isolated, or ashamed. Together, we’ll explore the “why” with care and curiosity, and move toward healing, connection, and confidence. You don’t have to carry this alone.

When Sex Doesn’t Feel the Same Anymore

For Women:
Many women experience changes in desire, comfort, or connection to their bodies as they age. You’re not broken—and you’re not alone. Sex therapy offers a safe, shame-free space to explore these shifts, reconnect with your sensual self, and rediscover what pleasure means to you now.

For Men:
As men age, shifts in desire, performance, or confidence are common—but still hard to navigate. Whether it’s low libido, erection issues, or feeling disconnected, sex therapy offers a judgment-free space to talk openly and work toward clarity, confidence, and satisfying intimacy—on your terms.

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Exploring Who You Are Without Judgement

Desire isn’t static—and if you’re questioning your sexual identity, interests, or relationship style, you’re not alone. Whether you’re curious about kink, navigating polyamory, or feeling disconnected from what used to excite you, sex therapy offers a nonjudgmental space to explore. Together, we can unpack your desires, boundaries, and evolving sense of self—so you can reconnect with your sexuality in a way that feels authentic, empowered, and entirely your own.

“I’m Not Sure If I’m Ready for Sex Therapy…”

You might wonder if your issue is serious enough, if talking about sex will be awkward, or if you should just figure it out alone.

You're not alone—and you don’t have to be in crisis to benefit.
You set the pace. You won’t be judged. Therapy works even if you come by yourself.

Struggling with sex or intimacy doesn’t make you broken—it makes you human.
If you’re curious but unsure, that’s okay. I’ll meet you there, with compassion—not pressure.

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What is Sex Therapy?

Sex therapy is a safe, supportive space to explore intimacy, desire, identity, and connection—without shame or judgment.

Whether you're facing low desire, pain during sex, challenges with arousal, or exploring kink, non-monogamy, or sexual identity, sex therapy can help you understand your needs and express them with confidence.

My approach is inclusive, trauma-informed, and affirming of all relationship structures and sexual expressions—grounded in the belief that everyone deserves pleasure, safety, and agency.

Is Sex Therapy Right for You?

Sex therapy might be “for you” if any of the following issues interfere with your relationship and the quality of your life: 

    • Experiencing anxiety about sexual activity and sexual performance 

    • Anxiety about body image, penis size 

    • Fear of sex 

    • Sexual shame, trauma, avoidance 

    • Being unable to get aroused or orgasm during sex for men and women 

    • Low libido or mismatched sex drives in couples 

    • Erectile dysfunction 

    • Delayed or premature ejaculation 

    • Pain during sex (e.g., vaginismus) 

    • Lack of communication about sex and intimacy Issues related to gender identity or sexual orientation

    • Emotional and relationship issues stemming from sexual difficulties 

    • Healing from infidelity 

    • Coping with a sexually transmitted illness (STI)

    • Exploring “opening'“ your relationship

    • Exploring kink/BDSM

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You Deserve a Relationship with Sex That Feels Safe, Honest, and Empowering

Change is possible—and it starts with one honest conversation. Whether you're struggling with desire, shame, communication, or disconnection, you don't have to face it alone. Therapy can help you feel more connected to yourself and your relationships.
Reach out today to take the first step toward healing.

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